Mind's Eye

Okay, to the guy that sleeps with tons of women and thinks that it’s impressive I have some sad news for you. If you were any good in bed then she wouldn’t let you go. I know what you’re thinking: “I left her.” Not quite. Think to yourself, did she really put up a fight to keep you around? Probably not.

If you were as good as you thought then you would have a borderline stalker on your hands. Check-in calls to see how you’re doing, are you still single and then just a straight up booty call. “I know I can’t have you but I need just a piece of you.”

Now, some people will think. Well guys like to sleep around. There is an instinctual thing to that and it’s partially true but truth be told we just like sex - so do women by the way. So if you give a guy a choice between guaranteed sex and awkward, bumpy sex potential then he will probably take the guaranteed sex. So, that being said, why would you turn your back to a girl that is guaranteeing sex? You wouldn’t. And you’re not getting a second shot because she didn’t present it to you. If you have more than ten one-night-stands then you may want to look in the mirror - and ten is being generous.

I’m not a porn star but I have been in mostly long term committed relationships. In those relationships sex was never a problem. Because of a philosophy that I have “I’m always going to get mine.” Nature has designed man to always reach his “Happy Moment” for the simple process of procreation. Women are not so lucky. So my thought, I’m always going to get mine so I’m going to make sure you get yours. I find pleasure in giving pleasure. My girlfriend didn’t believe me when I first said this which is just a sad condemnation of my side of the spieces.

On top of it all, if you give her what she wants she will do everything she can to give you what you want. Believe me, that is much better than fumbling around with a drunken stranger. Knowing what she likes leads to her knowing what you like. Tell me that doesn’t sound better.

It boils down to insecurity. You think the more women you sleep with the better you’re doing. You need tons of women to validate yourself. To the contrary, knock the bottom out of a girl the way she likes for an extended period of time and she’ll stroke your ego - and feed you, I love food; even if she can’t cook lay it down right and she’ll try as hard as she can to learn - until you die.

Fellas, make the ladies happy and in turn she will try as hard as she can to make you happy. Trust me, having one girl for thirty days is much better than a different girl for thirty days. Plus, there is less of a chance of your junk burning and looking like a sweet potato.

Hopefully the first of many …

http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/12533341/women-have-it-tough